Things Guys Think Girls Should Know (Ok so its
only fair.. now check out what the guyz think gals
should know)
1.. We're not as big of perverts as you think we
all are.
2.. No matter what you say, your ex-boyfriend is
an @ss hole.
3.. We like you to give us hugs and kisses
sometimes too.
4.. Don't argue with us when we call you
beautiful.
5.. Don't treat us like cr@p, what goes around
comes around.
6.. We know you're pretty, that's one of the
reason's we're going out with you.
7.. Don't go into detail about your period. It
scares us.
8.. If you have cramps and we ask you what's
wrong, just tell us it's that time of the month
and nothing more.
9.. If you really liked us for us, you would let
us think that our mustache, beard, or sideburns
looked cool.
10.. We never shave our legs. Get over it.
11.. NEVER ask us if you can put make up on us.
It's just wrong.
12.. Don't make bets about us, because one of
your friends will tell us, if you don't.
13.. When we tell you that you're not fat,
believe us.
14.. We absolutely do not care about, The
Backstreet Boys, NSYNC, 98 degrees, or what any
other guy looks like for that matter.
15.. We may not be able to pee acurately all of
the time, but at least we can stand up and go
pee.
16.. Just cause you think you're always right,
doesn't mean that you
don't have to apologize when you do
something "wrong".
17.. You expect us to say and do sweet things
for you, but it would be nice if you did the
same every once in a while. We like to know that
you love us.
18.. We can't always be spontaneous, so try to
help us make the plans sometimes.
19.. Don't ask us to beat up another guy for
you, cause you might just get what you wish for.
20.. Never kick us in the nuts "just to see what
we would say".
21.. Never pretend like you are going to break
up with us and laugh when we believe you.
22.. Pamela Anderson's breats aren't fake
anymore, but we like yours better anyway.
23.. Size doesn't matter, except to !d!ots who
don't want a relationship
24.. PMS is not an excuse.
25.. If you want us to put the seat down when
we're done, you should put it up when you're
done.
26.. Don't tell us how cute your ex-boyfriend
was. That doesn't turn us on.
27.. And always remember: The way to a guys
heart is through his stomach.....and maybe....oh
nevermind.
28.. And last but not least: We know you're not
always right, but we'll pretend like you are
anyway.

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xOOx - 6:08:00 pm



The fundamentals of love
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way she dresses herself to show off her best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter.
It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to draw you closer to her.
You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you.
You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level.
Afterall, the kind of wonderful experience you have between each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship.
In other words, the feeling is really unique - no one else seems able to replace her in your heart. So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.

When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot how it all began.
You start to take your partner for granted.
Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner? Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes?

Is she really the one for you?

To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory".

The "love memory' contains all the reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One.
It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her.
Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?

Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us.
You have forgotten the reasons you admired her during the friendship phase.
Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage.
As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about her.
These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.

The Secret Of Strong Relationships
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development.
You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight whirlwind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance?
Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (and vice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical aspects.
So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory".
Rediscover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish with a newfound vigour.


xOOx - 11:11:00 pm



Mood : ^_^Happy^_^

hahaha.... start off my new blog... ermmm... today have good mood.. hehe... cos i very happy.. haha... :p

xOOx - 9:55:00 pm


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